Inner Game is often the part of seduction that many people decide to skip, as they simply want to dive into the ''secrets'' of seduction, these one liners, and magic sayings that will make a girl melt and mean they can get what they want, weather it be a one night stand, long term relationship or simply, a fuck buddy.
But they then often come back and ask why isn't this working? - Why am I getting nowhere even having read these tips and tricks?
The answer is they neglected their Inner Game, the MOST IMPORTANT Aspect of anyone’s game it is due to the fact they haven't go inner game that they get approach anxiety an fail in their attempts with women.
Think of it like building a house without cement and wondering why it fell down in a stron wind, while all the other houses around you stood steady, this house was missing the vital ingredient, the glue that holds all the rest of the house together - this is exactly the same as a player without his inner game.
In order to be able to successfully use your game properly you have to have inner game, inner game is the opinion you have of yourself (your self esteem) and the pursuits in life that make you interesting and successful. This all contributes to your self confidence. A confident person is more likely to score with women.
A strong outer game can for a short while give the impression of confidence and help to attract women. However, without strong inner game, it will be very difficult to keep women or their interest since they will soon realize that you have little going on in your life that would want to make them stick around.
The inner game can be worked on and improved as much as the outer game, and indeed the two concepts are strongly linked to one another. strong inner game will help with the outer game when it comes to women since you will have plenty of things going on in your life to talk about!
Example of someone who has poor inner game:
Woman: ...that was a funny joke, so what do you do?
You: Err, I'm an accountant.
Woman: Ok. So do you have any hobbies?
You: I like going out with my mates, watching movies and stuff.
Woman: (yawn)
Example of someone who has strong inner game:
Woman: ...that was a funny joke, so what do you do?
You: I'm an accountant. I'm working in New York next week with a big client, it's usually a blast since we spend a lot of time eating at nice restaurants and being taken out for corporate drinks.
Woman: Wow. So do you have any hobbies?
You: I'm a keen rock climber actually. Next month I'm spending the weekend sport climbing in the south of France. I love it there.
Woman: That's amazing! I would love to do something like that...
You get the idea, so work on your inner game and you will improve a lot!
