Have you ever been attracted to a woman, and you weren't sure whether or not she was attracted to you? Maybe she doesn't even know you exist! All while you secretly pine away for her.
Don't worry - this is actually quite common among men.
But that doesn't mean it's okay!
Understand: there are some mistakes that ALL MEN make when it comes to the women they like.
MISTAKE #1 - Most Men Wait For The Girl To Approach Them.
Granted, there are some women out there who are very outgoing and approach the type of guys that they like. But these are few and far in-between.
There is a "male fantasy" out there that men can just sit around and wait for the WOMAN to initiate conversation or ask them out.
But this NEVER HAPPENS.
You can't be the type of guy who women approach unless you're incredibly good looking.
Now, this doesn't mean you don't have a chance with her - it just means you can't passively hope she's going to ask you to go out with her.
You need to TAKE ACTION.
MISTAKE #2 - Most Men Make Fun Of Themselves
Guys who are insecure about themselves will often use "self depreciating humor" to try and play off their insecurities. But all this does is point out to the girl that you're insecure!
NEVER make fun of yourself in front of a girl you like. You need to be building yourself up, not showcasing your flaws!
Now, I don't mean you should take yourself too seriously. But you shouldn't be dwelling on what's wrong with you just because you think the girl notices the same insecurities you do.
MISTAKE #3 - Most Men Don't Seek Help!
Lots of guys are very embarrassed about looking for help meeting women. They think that doing so makes them "some type of loser."
But nothing can be further from the truth.
You wouldn't think you were a loser if you took your car to a mechanic to be fixed, right?
You wouldn't feel like a loser if you had to go to a lawyer for legal advice, right?
But rather than seek the help they need, so many men try and figure stuff out on their own, and end up getting the same results they've always gotten!
That is why if you want to get women to notice you, you MUST learn how to do things the RIGHT WAY.
If you're tired of being lonely and ignored by women, you MUST check out my book, The Art Of Approaching RIGHT NOW. Otherwise, you'll just be getting more of the same.
Trust me: if I can turn my life around and go from a shy guy who could barely talk to women, to being a guy who can date models - YOU CAN TOO.
And the time to start is now.
Your friend,
Joseph Matthews
